

What have I learned? Well, among other things, while dirty talk can be totally hot and a very big turn on, it can also be kind of the worst. So, as someone who has had had multiple sexual partners, I have experienced different kinds of sex. Honestly, I think that's one of the best aspects of being a sexual human being you get to explore what you like, try new things, try new partners and learn from different people. Of course, different strokes for different folks and what turns one person off can definitely end up turning someone else on.

So, because it's not necessarily "my thing," I'm all for exploring the reasons it's totally fine to hate dirty talk. I'm not, however, that big of a fan of dirty talk.


I think sex is pretty awesome (duh) and as long as it's safe and consensual and respectful, it's nothing to be ashamed of. As long as you trust him and you both keep things safe, sane and consensual, a little kinky play can go a long way toward spicing things up.As a sex-positive person, I'm pretty open about sex and the sex I'm having and what I like about sex and even the number of people I've had sex with. Lots of men say they'd like to a woman up and have their way with her. As with all of these suggestions, whether or not you want to indulge those whims is entirely up to you. Some guys just want what they've seen happen in porn to become their reality. Of all the dirty things guys want their woman to do, some said one of the dirtiest things he wants is for a woman to not just let him ejaculate on her face, but for her to pretty much beg for it. Okay, you probably knew this one was coming (or maybe you didn't). You get bonus points for telling him that you've got no underwear on when the two of you are out in public, and could he please, please, please have sex with you now? Another man I surveryed suggested taking the idea up a notch by showing up at his place in nothing but your coat. The guys love it when you wear a nice dress or skirt with no panties underneath.
